Umuhanzikazi w’umunyempano Aroma yagaragaje impamvu kugeza ubu agifite ubuzima bw’ubusore (cyangwa ubukumi), ndetse anavuga uko we yumva urukundo nyakuri rugomba kumera.
Mu kiganiro yagiranye n’itangazamakuru, Aroma ntiyigeze ahisha ukuri ku miterere ye iyo yinjiye mu rukundo, avuga ko ari umuntu wifata cyane ku mukunzi we, agira ishyari rikabije, ndetse anavuga ko afite ubugome (ubugome bw’urukundo) butorohera buri wese.
Yagize ati:
“Ndi umuntu wifata cyane ku muntu nkunda, kandi bituma abantu bumva batishimye. Biba nk’aho mbabereye umutwaro kuko mpora ndi kuri bo, mbaza ibibazo, nshaka kumenya buri kantu kose. Kandi iyo bigeze aho, bahitamo kuncika. Ibyo nibyo ndi byo.”
Nubwo urubyiruko rukomeje kumukunda kubera ibihangano bye by’umwimerere, by’umwihariko indirimbo ye “Yoola”, Aroma yemera ko yagerageje gukundana n’abantu inshuro nyinshi ariko bikarangira umutima we uvunitse.
Ntabwo biterwa no kuba atabereka urukundo ruhagije, ahubwo bishobora guterwa n’uko we akunze cyane, birenze urugero umuntu asanzwe yakwihanganira. Kuri we, urukundo si ibintu byoroshye cyangwa bisanzwe – ni ibintu biba bikomeye cyane, bisaba byose, ndetse biba bihoraho buri munsi.
Yagize ati:
“Ubu nta mugabo mfite. Nagerageje kujya mu rukundo ariko byarangiraga umutima wanjye uvunitse inshuro nyinshi. Sindi bwihishire, nzi kwinubira cyane – umuntu ntajya anyihanganira igihe kirekire.”
Yakomeje avuga ko iyo akunda umuntu, ashaka kuba hafi ye buri gihe, kumuvugisha amanywa n’ijoro, no kumenya buri gihe aho ari n’ibyo arimo.
“Iyo nkunze umuntu, nshaka kumuvugisha amasaha 24 kuri 24. Nshaka no kumarana na we nibura amasaha 8 kugeza kuri 10 ku munsi. Agomba kumbwira aho ari, icyo arimo gukora, n’abantu bari kumwe. Iyo bitagenze bityo, umutima wanjye utuza.”
Iyo yabazwaga ku mugabo yumva yamubera uwo bamarana ubuzima, Aroma yasobanuye ko ashaka umuntu wumva kandi wakwemera uko ateye, cyane cyane ibijyanye n’amarangamutima ye yihariye, avuga ko ibyo bamwe bafata nk’intege nke kuri we ari ibimenyetso by’urukundo nyarwo.
“Ndashaka umuntu ushobora kwakira uko nteye – n’amakenga yanjye, ishyari n’urukumbuzi rwinshi. Ibyo byose ni ibimenyetso by’uko nkunda by’ukuri,” nk’uko yabivuze.
Aroma yerekanye ko kuba single atari uko atifuza gukundwa, ahubwo bishobora guterwa n’uburyo bwe bwihariye akundamo, budasanzwe kuri benshi. Urukundo kuri we si ikintu cyo gukina – ni ikintu ashyiramo umutima, ubwenge n’umwanya. N’ubwo ibyo bitabereye bose, birerekana ubunyangamugayo bwe mu rukundo n’uko yifuza urukundo rufite agaciro nyako.
