Mu gihe Zaylisa yashinjaga Haji Manara imyitwarire idakwiriye, harimo n’ibyemezo byo gusambanya abakobwa bato no kudatanga gatanya, socialite Dotto Magari nawe yaje kugira icyo avuga. Ibi byabaye nyuma y’uko Zaylisa atangije amakuru avuga ko Manara yamuteye ububabare mu mibanire yabo, birimo gukoresha nabi urukundo n’imyitwarire idakwiriye.
Muri videwo yashyizwe kuri Instagram, harimo Haji Manara, Dotto Magari, Nandy na Zaylisa bari bari kuririmba indirimbo ya “Dah” ya Nandy, aho Dotto yashyizeho amagambo yanditse avuga ati: “Punguza Wema, Binadamu Hawana Kumbukumbu.” Aya magambo asobanura ko abantu bagomba kugabanya kwiyemera, kuko abantu batagira urwibutso rwiza mu bihe bibi ahari ibiganiro by’ubworoherane, akenshi habonekamo ibisubizo bidahura na nyirabayazana.
Manara yashyize ku mugaragaro impungenge ze aho yashinjaga Zaylisa kuba afite ubugome ku mwana wabo, avuga ko ibyo avuga bitari ukuri kandi ko byari bigamije kumubabaza.
Umubano wabo wari umaze igihe wuzuye ibibazo, byatangiye kuboneka ko birimo ibitekerezo byahindutse ibimenyetso by’ubushotoranyi.
Nyuma yo kumva ibitekerezo bya Dotto, abantu benshi batangiye gutekereza ku buryo ububabare n’imvugo z’ikinyoma bishobora guhungabanya umubano w’abantu.
Birashoboka ko hari ingaruka mbi ku bana bafite ababyeyi batandukanye, ndetse ko bibagora gusobanukirwa aho urukundo n’urwango byahurira. Ibi biza kubazwa, impamvu Zaylisa yashyize imbere guhakana umubano, mu gihe Dotto n’abandi bagaragaza ko urukundo rufite inzitizi nyinshi.
Urugamba rw’urukundo hagati ya Zaylisa na Haji Manara rwagaragaje ibibazo byinshi byo mu buzima bwite bw’umuryango, aho abantu bashobora gusanga urukundo rwarahindutse igicumbi cy’ibitekerezo bitandukanye hagati y’abakundana.
Byumvikana ko muri ibi bihe, Wema (urukundo) ishobora kuba itari imbere, ahubwo hari ubushotoranyi, impanuka y’amarangamutima, n’ibitekerezo bidafite intego nyayo.
Kuba Dotto yagaragaje amagambo avuga ko abantu batagira urwibutso rwiza mu bihe bibi, bishobora kuba byerekeza ku biganiro bigamije kwibuka neza ibyabaye, kugira ngo bihangane n’ibibazo by’imibanire y’ubuzima. Ariko, ni nde ufite urwibutso nyakuri muri ibi bihe by’umubano? Dore ikibazo gikomeje gutangazwa: Ni nde ufite ubushobozi bwo kubana mu myitwarire nyayo?
