Umusobanuzi w’amafilime w’inararibonye mu Rwanda, Bugingo Bonny, benshi bazi nka Junior Giti, ari kumwe n’umugore we Umuhoza Angel, bari mu byishimo bikomeye byo kwizihiza isabukuru y’imyaka icyenda ishize bemeranyijwe kubana nk’umugabo n’umugore.
Uyu muryango umaze imyaka 9 ubarwa mu miryango ifite igikundiro mu itangazamakuru ryo mu Rwanda, kubera uburyo bagaragaza urukundo ruhamye, ubwumvikane n’icyizere hagati yabo. Bafitanye abana babiri, bakaba barakomeje kuba urugero rwiza ku rubyiruko rwinshi ruri mu rukundo cyangwa rute planning yo gushinga urugo.
Mu kwizihiza iyo sabukuru, Junior Giti na Angel basangije ababakurikira ku mbuga nkoranyambaga ubutumwa butandukanye bugaragaza ibyishimo, ishimwe n’urukundo bafitanye, bishimira intambwe bamaze kugeraho.
Mu magambo yuzuyemo amarangamutima, Angel yanditse ati:
“Imyaka icyenda irasa n’iy’umunsi umwe iyo uri kumwe n’umukunzi w’ukuri. Uri inshuti, uri se w’abana banjye, uri byose kuri njye. Imana ikomeze ihe umugisha urugo rwacu.”
Na Junior Giti nawe ntiyacikanwe, asubiza mu buryo bwuje ishimwe agira ati:
“Uri umugisha w’ubuzima bwanjye. Imyaka icyenda nubwo twahuye n’ibigoye, sinigeze nibwira ko twazayirenga tutagikorana urukundo. Uri igitangaza. Imana iguhe umugisha Angel.”
Mu gihe cy’imyaka icyenda, Junior Giti na Angel bagiye bagaragara mu bihe bitandukanye by’ingenzi mu rugo rwabo: ibihe by’ibyishimo, ibihe by’intambara z’ubuzima, ndetse n’ibihe byo kwagura urukundo no kubaka ejo hazaza heza. Bagiye batanga impanuro ku bashakanye n’abakundana, bibutsa ko urugo rwiza rutangwa n’Imana ariko rugasigasirwa n’imbaraga z’abarugize.
Junior Giti uzwi cyane mu gusobanura amafilime no kuba umwe mu batumirwa bakomeye mu biganiro by’urwenya n’umuco, akunze kugaragaza uburyo urukundo rw’umugore we rwamubereye igitinyiro n’inkingi imufasha mu buzima bwa buri munsi.
Mu mafoto n’amashusho yasangijwe ku mbuga nkoranyambaga, uyu muryango wagaragaye wishimye cyane, abana babo babiri na bo bari kumwe nabo muri ibyo birori byabereye mu rugo rwabo. Abakunzi babo babahaye ubutumwa butandukanye bubifuriza indi myaka myinshi yuzuye umugisha n’amahoro.
Umwe mu bakunzi babo yanditse ati:
“Urugo rwanyu ni icyitegererezo. Imana ikomeze ibarinde kandi ibongerere urukundo. Mwatwigishije ko kubaka bisaba umutima n’ukwemera.”
Urugo rwa Junior Giti na Umuhoza Angel rugaragaza ishusho y’uko urukundo n’ubwumvikane bishobora kuramba igihe cyose habayeho kwitanga, kwihanganirana no gushyira Imana imbere. Ubutumwa bwabo ni uko urugo rutubakwa ku byangombwa gusa, ahubwo ruba ikigo cy’urukundo, ikinyabupfura, no guharanira gukura hamwe.
Nk’uko byagarutsweho n’abenshi, ni urugero rwerekana ko ibyamamare nabyo bishobora kugira urugo ruhamye, ntirwigaragaze gusa mu bitangazamakuru nk’ibyamamare ahubwo no mu buzima busanzwe nk’abantu bafite indangagaciro n’icyerekezo.
