Urukundo ni kimwe mu bintu bifite ingaruka zikomeye ku buzima bw’umuntu. Kuba ufite umukunzi ni ibintu bituma ugira umutekano mu mutima, utekereza neza kandi ugafasha gukemura ibibazo. Akenshi, umuntu ufite umukunzi aba afite umuntu wamufasha igihe cyose mu bihe byiza n’ibibi.
By’umwihariko, iyo uri mu rukundo, ufite umuntu wo gusangira ibyishimo, ndetse n’umuntu ushobora kugufasha kwitwara neza mu buzima, kandi akaba igihangange mu gusubiza icyizere igihe cyose, no kugukemurira ibibazo bishobora kuboneka mu buzima bwa buri munsi.
Kuba uri ‘single’ bikwiye gutuma wigunga kuri Saint Valentin?
Hari igihe abantu benshi bibaza niba kuba nta mukunzi ufite byagombera gutuma wumva ugomba kwigunga cyangwa kugira intimba kuri Saint Valentin.
Ariko ukwiriye kumenya ko Saint Valentin itari umunsi wihariye w’abakundana gusa, ahubwo ni umunsi wo kwishimira urukundo rwose, yaba urw’abavandimwe, inshuti, cyangwa urundi rukundo rwose umuntu ashobora kugira.
Kuba uri ‘single’ muri uwo munsi ntibigomba kukubangamira, ahubwo wakoresha uyu munsi ngo wiyibutse ko urukundo rutarangirira gusa mu kuba mu mubano n’umuntu umwe, ahubwo rufite byinshi rwakubera mu buzima bwose, harimo no kwishimira ibyo ukora mu buzima bwa buri munsi.
Intego yawe mu rukundo ni iyihe?
Intego mu rukundo ni ikintu gikomeye kigomba kuba ishingiro rya buri muntu mu rugendo rwe rw’urukundo.
Intego yanjye mu rukundo ni ugukora uko nshoboye kose ngo nkundwe, kandi nkunde uwo nifuza. Sinshaka gusa gukunda umuntu, ahubwo intego ni ukugira urukundo rwigenga, rwubakitse ku bwubahane no ku gufashanya.
Urukundo rugomba kugirira akamaro impande zombi, rugashyigikira ibyifuzo n’imigambi ya buri wese, rugafasha gukomeza kubaka umuryango mwiza ndetse no guhanga imbere mu buryo bwiza.
Muri make, umunsi wa Saint Valentin ntugomba kubaho gusa nk’umunsi w’abakundana, ahubwo ni umwanya wo kwishimira urukundo mu buzima bwa buri munsi, byaba ari urw’inshuti, urw’umuryango, cyangwa urw’abakundana.
Kandi kuba ufite umukunzi cyangwa uri ‘single’ ntabwo ari byo bigena uko uzawukoresha, ahubwo uburyo uzawubyazamo umusaruro ni byo by’ibanze.
