Umuhanzikazi w’Umunya-Uganda, Lydia Jazmine, yagaragaye mu kiganiro cyimbitse asaba rubanda guhagarika kumushyiraho igitutu cyo gushaka no kugira abana, avuga ko ayo ari amahitamo y’umuntu ku giti cye, atagomba guterwa n’ibyifuzo cyangwa igitutu cy’abandi.
Mu kiganiro yagiranye na Galaxy TV, Lydia Jazmine yagaragaje ko adafite gahunda yo gushaka umugabo cyangwa kuba umubyeyi muri iki gihe, kandi ko ahugiye cyane mu rugendo rwe rwa muzika. Uyu muhanzikazi yavuze ko ibi bintu, ari byo gushaka n’ububyeyi, bidakwiye gufatwa nk’itegeko ry’abagore bose, ahubwo bikwiye kwemerwa nk’ibyemezo bwite umuntu afata igihe abishakiye.
Yagize ati:
“Ese koko ntimuneshwa no kuduhata ngo dushake kandi tubyare? Ibyo ni ibintu umuntu yihitiramo igihe yumva abishoboye. Sintekereza ko buri wese abikeneye.”
Yakomeje agira ati:
“Numva ari ikosa rikomeye gukomeza gushyira abantu igitutu cyo gushaka no kubyara. Igihe kigeze, bizizana.”
Lydia Jazmine asanga hari imyumvire ikiri mu bantu benshi, cyane cyane mu mico yo muri Afurika, aho umugore afatwa nk’utarangije inshingano ze igihe atarashaka cyangwa se atarabyaye. Ibi, nk’uko abyivugira, ni ibintu biba bikomerera cyane abagore benshi, by’umwihariko abamamaye, kuko bahozwa ku nkeke.
Abagore benshi b’abahanzi cyangwa abari mu itangazamakuru bahura n’iki kibazo cyo guhatwa n’ababaza igihe bazashakira, igihe bazabyarira, n’impamvu batabikora vuba. Ibi bituma hari abumva basabwa kujya mu ngo z’amarangamutima cyangwa gufata icyemezo cyo kubyara atari uko babyiteguye, ahubwo ari uko babiterwa n’igitutu cy’abantu batandukanye barimo inshuti, imiryango, n’itangazamakuru.
Jazmine avuga ko ibyo bikwiye guhagarara, kuko atari buri wese wumva yiteguye cyangwa wumva abifitiye ubushake.
Hari ubwo abagore batifuza guhita bashaka cyangwa kubyara bafatwa nabi muri sosiyete, bakitwa abiyemera, abirengagiza inshingano zabo, cyangwa se ngo ni abateshutse ku muco. Lydia Jazmine yahamije ko ibyo ari ukutubaha uburenganzira bw’umuntu ku buzima bwe bwite.
Yagize ati:
“Umuntu agomba gufata icyemezo ku buzima bwe, si ibintu byo gushyirwaho igitutu. Niba hari ikintu kitari mu ntego zawe muri icyo gihe, ntukwiye kugihatirwa.”
Yongeyeho ko abahanzi, cyane cyane abagore, bafite amahitamo nk’abandi bose, kandi ko atari ngombwa ko bazamuka mu muziki ariko bakabuzwa amahirwe yo kuba bafite ubwisanzure ku buzima bwabo bwite.
Uyu muhanzikazi umaze kuba ubukombe mu muziki wa Uganda, yavuze ko ari mu bihe byiza mu rugendo rwe rwa muzika kandi ari byo abanje kwitaho. Yemeje ko ibijyanye no gushaka cyangwa kubyara atari byo biri ku murongo wa mbere mu ntego afite ubu.
Ati:
“Muri iki gihe ndi kwibanda ku rugendo rwanjye rwa muzika. Nizeye ko igihe nikigera ku bindi bintu byose, bizizana nta gitutu.”
Yashimangiye ko impamvu benshi bafata abagore batashatse cyangwa batarabyaye nk’abantu bafite ikibazo, ari imyumvire ishaje ikwiye guhinduka. Yongeyeho ko abantu bakwiye kumenya ko ubuzima bw’umuntu atari urutonde rw’ibyo abandi bashaka ko akora, ahubwo ari urugendo rwa buri wese agomba guhitamo uko arugenda.
Mu gihe cy’iki gihe aho abantu benshi barushaho gusobanukirwa n’uburenganzira bwabo, ubutumwa bwa Lydia Jazmine bufite uruhare rukomeye mu gusunika impinduka mu mitekerereze ya sosiyete. Ubutumwa nk’ubu bushobora gufasha abagore benshi guharanira ubwisanzure bwabo, kutagira ipfunwe ryo kuba batashatse cyangwa batabyaye, no kumenya ko amahitamo yabo afite agaciro.
Abandi bahanzi b’abagore, nka Cindy Sanyu, Sheebah Karungi n’abandi, nabo bagiye bagaragara kenshi bashimangira ko abagore bafite uburenganzira bwo guhitamo icyo bashaka mu buzima bwabo, n’igihe babyumva.
Ibi bigaragaza ko ikibazo Lydia Jazmine agaragaza atari icye ku giti cye gusa, ahubwo ari ikibazo rusange cyugarije abagore benshi, cyane cyane abari mu ruhame.
Lydia Jazmine agaragaje ko igihe cyo gushaka cyangwa kubyara atari ibintu umuntu akora kuko abibwirijwe, ahubwo ari ibintu bikwiye gukorwa igihe umuntu abiyumvamo kandi abyiteguye. Asaba sosiyete yose guhindura imyumvire, bakarekera abagore uburenganzira bwo guhitamo uko bayobora ubuzima bwabo. Ibi ni ubutumwa bufite ireme, ndetse bwakirwa neza n’abagore benshi bahura n’igitutu cy’uko bagomba gukurikiza gahunda sosiyete ibateganyiriza, aho kwigenga.
